Once you've got talking techniques and fair fighting methods down, and you've figured out what planet you're from, this book will help you take the next step in relationship. For those of you wishing to go beyond the nuts and bolts of relationship to a transformed way of inter-being, this book is perhaps the most lucid, light-filled, and compassionate description of the steps along the path.
Eminently practical, do-able, and relevant, the Levines outline multiple pathways to a deeper spiritual relationship with your partner - and with yourself. As well, anyone in the process of considering ending a relationship will find healing and hope in the chapter on conscious separation. Those currently unattached will find opportunities for deep learning and healing in preparation for their next relationship.
There is a lifetime of study in this book, or as the Levines say, this is the work of a lifetime. It may take a while to "get it". Persevere: the effort is well worth it! The potential in your relationship is glorious!
Most importantly, the book focuses on the importance of consciousness at all levels of relationship. The authors manage to make the book germane whether or not the reader is engaged in a relationship at the moment. Those who are in a relationship can use the book to deepen their bond and understand one another. Those leaving a relationship can use it to learn and heal. Anyone can benefit from the familiarity that comes from consciously examining their relationship persona and its impact on interactions with others.
Especially poignant is the chapter on conscious closure of relationship, providing insight and great support when saying goodbye to loved ones, whether the parting occurs through death or a decision to go separate ways. Understanding the importance of forgiveness and the role of ritual in taking affirmative steps towards making peace with partings is empowering. The authors gently address the pain of closure, and provide concrete examples that can help to ease the hurt while opening yourself up to the new beginning birthed by every goodbye.