How to Date Young Women: For Men over 35
Author: R. Don Steele, E.F. Bellevue
List Price: $22.95
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ISBN: 0962067156
Publisher: Steel Balls Pr (November, 1995)
Sales Rank: 10,059
Average Customer Rating: 4.46 out of 5
Customer Reviews
Rating: 5 out of 5
True Knowledge
Steele cuts to the chase with a no-nonsense approach. His formula involves understanding all the dynamics of dating including understanding your own motivations as well as the motivations of the women you will be dating. He is especially attentive to the importance of ethical considerations as well as to respecting women. His concepts of "let it happen" and the "right attitude" are of amazing value. Steele is candid and to the point. His methods will work but, require effort and are not a "Magic" fix. You have to learn how to become and then actually become the type of man a young woman would want to date. I personally had a failed relationship with a woman much younger than myself. I never understood what went wrong and struggled deeply with this for 6 years. After reading Steele's book I now completely understand why it had to happen the way it did. That was worth the price of the book. Every chapter is a gold mine of real knowledge for any man who desires to fulfill this dream. Highly recommended.
Rating: 5 out of 5
Success: Professional, Personal, and Romantic
Don Steele's books are about far more than just dating young women; in fact, being able to learn how to meet, date, make love with young women is only one of the considerable benefits of studying the author's books. The process of self-change (gaining 'The Right Attitude') that the reader has to go though to be able to achieve the above is so valuable, in all areas of life, that the book's title does not reflect the full benefit gained from reading, re-reading, and referring back to the book. This is an honest, practical, easy-to-understand book about SUCCESS. There is so much more in this book than just successful non-exploitative dating: this is a refreshingly honest guide to achieving success in all aspects of life by learning and practising 'The Right Attitude' -- because that is what Vol. I and II, really are all about. To get the full benefit, after reading and digesting Volume I, the reader should buy Volume II, 'Office Practice', and 'Body Language Secrets' from the same author. Together, they comprise a complete, practical, non-BS guide to achieving success in business and personal life, including: - Dress for success at work and with women - Acquiring assertive skills to gain respect and co-operation from co-workers, friends, and girlfriends - Reading non-verbal signals to understand what people REALLY mean, not just what they say - Presenting yourself as an accomplished man of the worldAlso recommended: For maximum benefit buy also Volume II, 'Office Practice', and 'Body Language Secrets' from the same author; together they make a complete, practical, non-BS guide to achieving success in business and personal life.
Rating: 5 out of 5
A priceless gem
Steele's book has the unmistakeable tone of having been written from personal experience. Every other book I've found professing to teach men about dating and women is either a scam targeted at clueless men who wish they were players, or is yet another case of those who can't do something teaching about it.I don't think there's a heterosexual guy out there who couldn't learn something at least worth the price of the book by reading it.
While Steele wrote the book around his own attempts to recover what was left of his life after divorce and at middle age, the core knowledge is not really limited to older men seeking younger women. However, his desire to have young lovers sets the basic premise. Since younger women lack the motivations of older women to accept a man's defects, Steele was forced to get his act together in order to acheive his goal. His mistakes are included for your education and amusement. While part of the book does focus on a specific age difference, much of it will be of value to any man.
Notably absent are 'great pickup lines' and advice on how to manipulate women. No fuel for fantasy here. What you do get are concrete actions that can actually be applied to your circumstances. It is especially applicable to those the title addresses, but by no means limited to relationships with a specific age difference. What Steele really conveys is practical knowledge of how to be a better man, with the side benefit that young women will find you attractive.
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