Intellectual Foreplay: Questions for Lovers and Lovers-To-Be
Author: Eve Eschner Hogan, Steven Hogan
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ISBN: 0897932773
Publisher: Hunter House (December, 2000)
Sales Rank: 17,843
Average Customer Rating: 4.63 out of 5
Customer Reviews
Rating: 5 out of 5
Before you make that next date....
Buy this book. Read this book. Thoroughly. There are enough questions to spread out over several months, but asking them all the first week might scare your sweetie away! The goal is to get to know the person you're with, not to interrogate them. Take your time, weave them into the conversation. This is a wonderful book for people already in a relationship, but even BETTER if you buy it while you are still single, making that list of qualities you want to find in a partner. I agree with the reviewer who said it helped her map her value system. Some of the best advice given in this book is that in order to attract the type of person you want to be with, you must first BECOME the person you want to be with -- if you want to meet an outdoorsy type, then be an outdoorsy type. Sounds insanely simple, and it is. I am already ordering more copies for my friends.
Rating: 5 out of 5
The "Love Bible"
I've been reading Intellectual Foreplay a lot...and it's amazingly accurate. I'm in a long-distance relationship and since we don't see eachother that often, we've been talking to eachother a lot, and we asked eachother the exact same questions that are in this book. I was stunned when I saw that. It's a really easy-to-read book with tons of deep-going questions that really make you think about relationships. It's not just a book telling you to do this or that, or telling you what's good or bad. It's a book that's open to a lot of thoughts and makes you aware that everyone's different and that there's more than one path to choose from.If there would be something like a "Love Bible", this would be it...trust me.
Rating: 5 out of 5
You'll never be at a loss for conversational topics
I used this book to flag questions to ask during my "looking around" phase. Sometimes we would just flip the book open to whatever page came up - and there were always questions to stimulate healthy discussion. Similar Products
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