Because of Dr. Crabb's insight, I began to see the benefit of crisis as the birth of spiritual maturity. I have always considered chapter 2 in the biblical book of James as a passage written specifically to me:
"Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."
"Inside Out" explained this divine process of spiritual growth in such a way that I developed a deep appreciation for crisis, struggle, and yes, suffering. From that appreciation came sincere empathy-- something I quite frankly lacked, but always wanted.
I was strengthen so much by the book that I had my wife to read it, gave it to friends who also struggled in personal crisis, and asked members of my church's leadership team to read it (so we would be better at fostering spiritual maturity). In each instance, these individuals were confronted with issues that Dr. Crabb skillfully addressed. It truly is a challenging book and worthy "read."
Some of the principles Crabb mentions include:
1. Sometimes the ache in our hearts is due to a realistic appraisal of life.
2. Reasons why we should face our thirst for spiritual satisfaction.
3. Self-protection keeps us from relating to others in more profound ways.
4. We have no right to demand anything from God!
5. We must not be demanding of others - we will struggle with disappointing relationships.
6. We must allow God to help us clearly see ourselves as we really are.
7. How we can honestly face our thirst.
8. Most important of all - the gospel contains the power to change our lives for the better!!!
Read the book and prepared to be challenged and encouraged to change your life for the better!