Still Friends: Living Happily Ever After...Even If Your Marriage Falls Apart
Author: Barbara Quick
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ISBN: 1885171366
Publisher: Wildcat Canyon Press (June, 2003)
Sales Rank: 272,355
Average Customer Rating: 3.6 out of 5
Customer Reviews
Rating: 1 out of 5
Not a Book for the Masses
Any one who has worked in a child custody setting or attended the average divorce court will know that STILL FRIENDS Is not a book that addresses the trenchant problems most people face during a divorce. Worse still, one suspects that this book suger-coats some basic facts about the hard work of dismantling a domestic cosmology no matter how educated or therapized the people involved happen to be.. The fact that the book is very small unwittingly validates the impression that the research was slim and the author created a premise and found a few people to support it with biased interviews. It would be great if this author had taken a look at even a handful of literature about family systems therapy: Among other things, she extolls the virtues of infinitely extended families made of spouses and ex-spouses and lovers of ex-spouses and ex-lovers of ex-spouses. This has to be a nightmare for the kids, and one wonders whether any thought has been given to their real feelings.
Rating: 2 out of 5
Not much of a book
A collection of peoples' success stories in maintaining some sort of amicable relationship post-divorce. While many of the stories are inspiring, the book is written in a hodge-podge fashion arranged around subject matter but sharing quotes from the same people over and over. I would have preferred chapter by chapter couple studies that went in depth into the various stages each couple went through as they dealt with their scenarios.Large print, small format, wide margins, large spacing try to mask that this book simply isn't very long. As another reviewer said, an "easy read"; that's a nice way of putting it.
Rating: 5 out of 5
Saving lives
Barbara Quick has managed to write an anecdotal, eminently useful book for those who are divorced or will be. She focuses on the truths of post-divorce relationships in all their complexity, while she leads the reader through them, to a happy (and realistic) outcome. As a pastor, I plan to give a copy to any couple who come to me for advice about their divorce. The book will save lives!
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