i actully bought it on sale at amazon, not knowing why. t the time i bought it, it was an interesting title at a reduced price. so i bought it. and it sat on my shelf for two years.
then, my husband was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and was told he would never get better, that he would have to live this way the rest of his life. then the stress started.
without getting goopy, i'll just say that it was the key that saved us. we were yelling and screaming at each other, talking about divorce, and being as ugly as we could to one another. this book helped me pull it together and gave clear steps as to what to do.
the idea i liked the best was that your marriage is a career and needs the attention and focus that career needs.
i don't want to ramble on, just want to say this book saved our marriage. and thanks to the authors!